Friendly Relations with the People Around You depend on all the people closely around you to give you the warm feeling of belongingness (归属)that you must have to feel secure. But, in fact, the members of all the groups to which you belong also depend on you to give that feeling to them, a person who shows that he wants everything for himself is bound to be a lonely wolf. The need for companionship is closely related to the need for a sense of belongingness. How sad and lonely your life would be if you had no one to share your feelings and experiences. You may take it for granted that there always will be people around to talk to and to do things with you and for you. The important point, however, is that keeping emotionally healthy does not depend so much on having people around you as upon your ability to establish relationships that are satisfying both to you and to them. Suppose you are in a crowd watching a football game. You dont know them. when the game is over, you will go your separate ways. But just for a while you had a feeling of companionship, of sharing the feeling of others who were cheering for the team you wanted to win. An experience of this kind gives the clue to what companionship really is. It depends upon emotional ties of sympathy, understanding, trust, and affection. Companionships become friends when these ties are formed. When you are thrown in a new circle of acquaintance, you may not know with whom you will make friends, but you can be sure that you will be able to establish friendships if you show that you really like people. 1. Paragraph 2_____.2. Paragraph 3_____.3. Paragraph 4_____.4. Paragraph 5_____. A. Close link between companionship and belongingnessB. How to satisfy other peoples needsC. An example of a satisfying relationshipD. Difficulties in establishing friendshipsE. What companionship really isF. Making friends with new acquaintances 5. If you had no one to share your feelings, your life would be____.6. The warm feelings of belongingness may give you ____.7. The ability to establish fine relations with others will keep you ____.8. You will find it hard to make friends with people ____. A. sad and lonelyB. emotionally healthC. without real love for themD. a sense of securityE. a lonely wolfF. without pity文章主题剖析 --抓住中心词。Friendly Relations with the People Around小标题被选项剖析 ---抓住中心词A. Close link between companionship (友谊)and belongingnessB. How to satisfy other peoples needsC. An example of a satisfying relationshipD. Difficulties in establishing friendshipsE. What companionship really isF. Making friends with new acquaintances解题:1. Paragraph 2_____.A.解题思路:借助段首句的句意特征(概括句)和后续句子的特征(对前句讲解性的句子)和句中的核心词。The need for companionship is closely related to the need for a sense of belongingness. (概括句)How sad and lonely your life would be if you had no one to share your feelings and experiences. (对前句进行讲解性)。You may (作为例子继续进行讲解)take it for granted that there always will be people around to talk to and to do things with you and for you. The important point, however, is that keeping emotionally healthy does not depend so much on having people around you as upon your ability to establish relationships that are satisfying both to you and to them.Take it for granted that ..想当然的觉得 Keep/make/consider/leave + n./pron.+ adj.not so much A as B: 与其说A不如说B B. How to satisfy other peoples needsC. An example of a satisfying relationshipD. Difficulties in establishing friendshipsE. What companionship really isF. Making friends with new acquaintances 2. Paragraph 3_____.C.借助段首句句意的特征(假设某种状况)和后续句子的特征(是在对这种假设的状况进行详细的描述)直接判断答案。Suppose you are in a crowd watching a football game. You dont know them. When the game is over, you will go your separate ways. But just for a while you had a feeling of companionship, of sharing the feeling of others who were cheering for the team you wanted to win.Cheer: n.愉快, 欢呼v.快活, 欢呼e.g. Lets give three cheers for our team theyve won! 让大家为大家队欢呼三声,他们赢了。 B. How to satisfy other peoples needsD. Difficulties in establishing friendshipsE. What companionship really isF. Making friends with new acquaintances3. Paragraph 4_____.E.借助段落中的核心词Companionships直接确认答案。An experience of this kind gives the clue to what companionship really is. It depends upon emotional ties of sympathy, understanding, trust, and affection. Companionships become friends when these ties are formed. B. How to satisfy other peoples needsD. Difficulties in establishing friendshipsF. Making friends with new acquaintances4. Paragraph 5_____.F.对比段落中用词和被选项中的用词特征选择答案。When you are thrown in a new circle of acquaintance, you may not know with whom you will make friends, but you can be sure that you will be able to establish friendships if you show that you really like people. A. sad and lonelyB. emotionally healthC. without real love for themD. a sense of securityE. a lonely wolfF. without pity5. If you had no one to share your feelings, your life would be____.A.依据搭配句意判断答案可能为A和B。借用题干中的黑体结构作为答案线索,如此在第2段找到直接答案有关句:How sad and lonely your life would be if you had no one to share your feelings and experiences. B. emotionally healthC. without real love for themD. a sense of securityE. a lonely wolfF. without pity6. The warm feelings of belongingness may give you ____.D.直接借用搭配句意选择答案B. emotionally healthC. without real love for themE. a lonely wolfF. without pity7. The ability to establish fine relations with others will keep you ____.B.借用题干中的特殊结构:keep + pron.+ adj.直接选择答案。也可借助establish fine relations作为答案线索,在第2段最后一句中找到直接答案有关句。The important point, however, is that keeping emotionally healthy does not depend so much on having people around you as upon your ability to establish relationships that are satisfying both to you and to them. B. emotionally healthC. without real love for themE. a lonely wolfF. without pity8. You will find it hard to make friends with people ____.C.借用题干中的黑体结构作为线索,如此在文章最后一段中找到答案。When you are thrown in a new circle of acquaintance, you may not know with whom you will make friends, but you can be sure that you will be able to establish friendships if you show that you really like people